Girl at heart

Hey beautiful charming woman and handsome young man, you beautiful inside out, what's wrong with you? You are full of glamour, your life is rich, your life is meaningful , everything is fine , your intellect, your finances, your looks, your style, the lovely smile on your face. You are full of life, you are full of hope for the future, your dreams never end and the you keep on impressing everyone with your success and the depth and breadth of your personality. You have your habits, you play sports, you read and write and you  have caring friends and business associates who make your life insightful . 

The story of your life is great ,yet you need to take one idea off your mind.

You don't have a husband! This is the problem! The dilemma many young women approach in their late thirties and forties and probably fifties is a mere illusion and self fulfilling prophecy that takes a lot of the quality of life . You are not alone, social norms are changing and life has a lot to offer to the young lady than just marriage. This is not a feminist anti establishment post but rather magnifies the importance of not missing the big picture and wholeness of life to the tree of marriage.

Marriage is not good or bad, it is a matter of probability and not a must have possibility. Life is always about 50/50 chance, you either make it or not, so you are getting married or not, while the expected value of your life as a whole is the sum of your education, career, life purpose, relationships and the dent you could make in the world. Your legacy is not your marriage. You can see some young girls in rural areas getting married around 18 years old and living a life in informal slavery? Would you trade your life with one of those girls? The taboo of marriage and aging has to be broken, you are not your age and you are not your status. You are valued, loved and appreciated the way you are. Society has to stop putiing any bachelorette under extreme countdown like time pressure with this make believe a FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) mindset, stop it !It doesn't matter!!! If you are 60 and never married, it doesn't matter, if you are a single mom it doesn't matter, if you are widowed it doesn't matter. Live your life and enjoy every breath you take because life is about the moments you live, not the status on your id.

Freeing your mind will make you feel liberated, no anxiety , no waiting, richer relationships with friends and family, a better ability to fulfill your potential as you are waiting for no one but yourself.

When you’re living your life confidently, freely and without restraint, you emit the kind of energy that it just isn’t possible to fake. The kind of energy that’s capable of transforming not just your own life, but the lives of people around you.

Enjoy your life now